When school lets out for summer, many families look forward to relaxed routines and quality time together. But as parents in the Marshall area know all too well, more time at home can also mean more sibling squabbles.
With kids spending longer days together, it’s not uncommon for arguments, competition, and conflict to increase.
The good news? With a few intentional strategies and support from your community, you can help your kids learn to get along and enjoy their summer—and you can enjoy a little peace of mind, too.
1. Schedule Solo Time
Just like adults, kids need their own space. Consider setting aside daily quiet time or scheduling individual activities that give each child a break from their siblings. Whether it's reading, crafting, or participating in a YMCA program like Drone Club or Youth Pickleball, a little time apart can go a long way in reducing tension.
2. Teach Conflict Resolution Skills
Summer is a great time to reinforce social-emotional learning. Show your kids how to take turns, share, and use “I” statements (like “I feel upset when you take my toy without asking.”) to express their feelings. Modeling this behavior helps children learn how to resolve disagreements respectfully and independently.
3. Set Clear Expectations
Before tempers flare, talk to your children about what is expected of them. Be consistent with your rules and make sure they understand the consequences of fighting or hurtful behavior. Clear guidelines create a sense of security and fairness.
4. Foster Teamwork with Cooperative Activities
Encourage siblings to work together on fun, low-pressure projects. Whether it’s building a fort, baking cookies, or working together on a LEGO set, cooperative experiences help kids develop empathy and camaraderie.
Let the Y Support You This Summer
At the Marshall Area YMCA, we’re here to help your family thrive. Our Summer Adventure Camp offers a full day of exciting, enriching activities—perfect for giving kids structured fun and giving parents a well-deserved break.
Sibling conflict is normal, but it doesn’t have to ruin your summer. With patience, proactive planning, and the support of your local Y, your family can make the most of the season—together.